Do something for you
1:22 PM
Since small all we are taught that if we don't have a partner and get married, we will be alone because nobody accepts it. I'm tired of this shit. Come on, we don't need a relationship to feel part of something. How many times we don't look at ourselves? Probably so many times that I lost count.
Who you wanted to please the last time you dressed? How long you don't look for yourself? And how many of your recent choices were exclusively molded for you? I dare say that few or none.
We spent a lifetime talking and doing what others have forced us to say. I used to do everything to enter a dummy 36. I never got it. I thought if I don't dress like the other girls, I could never get a boyfriend, of course this is all bullshit. I realized I didn't want a boyfriend, I was just trying to be just like everyone else.
Don't arrange a dating just because you are tired of being "stranded" of the galley. Don't start a diet just because they said you have to be thin as magazines' girls. You probably never did anything for yourself, or because you really wanted. You always saw from what the other thinks you are, it's not something abnormal, and even I don't escape of this. No one escapes of it.
We have to try to do things for ourselves, we have to allow ourselves to be happier without us care about what others will think, we have to decide what is good and what isn't without other people's guesses. Because when you get tired of it, you will blame everyone who made choices for you. And all because YOU allowed. Only you.
Don't be afraid to decide what you want for yourself, even if it is not what people want for you. I read in a text a few days ago that the best decisions are those we make when we stick a finger in the wound and we poke until you find in the bruised own, the healing. And there wouldn't better words to say it.
Try to do something for you, and just because you want to do, and see how wonderful it is.
xoxo, Amsterdam
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Great text! This is what I tell my girlfriends all the time; a relationship won't make you happy, first you have to be happy on your own.
ResponderExcluirThanks!!! love yourself first and foremost. :)
ExcluirLoved this!!
ResponderExcluirThank you!!
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